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For 5 months, since my marriage ended, I have been Woe Me (hand swept across brow in 18th century damsel in distress sort of way).   I’m ok with this.  While I’m a glass half-full kind of person, occasionally you … Continue reading →

I am alone but I have been so touched, and that is making all the difference. This is what I talked about it my last blog.  Six days of being wrapped around my girls, having fun in the sun.  After … Continue reading →

My mum had a hands on approach to love. There were hugs and cuddles and bedtime snuggles.  Touches and tickles and bedtime kisses. Even when I was 40, she would take my hand to walk down the road, and throw … Continue reading →

What a difference a year makes.  This week in May has always been a bit full on.  This one week holds host to three of the most most important birthday’s in my family – my mum, one of my daughters … Continue reading →

It’s not that my Wonder Pants are slipping… it’s just maybe right now they’re giving me a wedgey.  I still have no doubt I will get through this………. it’s just that the getting through this is so so hard. I … Continue reading →

Peace of mind…..It’s a much undervalued state. But if one thing the last few years has taught me, peace of mind is the most important. I’m not talking about mindfulness. I’m not talking about meditation. I’m not even talking about … Continue reading →

This weekend I was the damsel in distress. But it was no prince who rescued me. It was a clan of wondrous women. I’m out the other side broken but better and bolder. Sometimes you just have to jump into … Continue reading →

Yesterday I agreed away my marriage. We finalised the mediated separation agreement which will now represent my husband in absence.  It’s full of rules and drop-off times, and weekend shifts and divided school holidays. It’s full of numbers and figures … Continue reading →

Sometimes I move so fast I see myself rushing past in a blur of colour.  “Oh is is that me?” I think as I whip past at warp speed.  But before I can grab myself, I’m gone, like a gust … Continue reading →

Going with the flow….. such a pretty concept. It conjures up a lazy loveliness of meandering musings.  Drifting down the river aimlessly on a warm summer day, the haze of sun misting the haze of thoughts in your head. But … Continue reading →