Category Archives: Uncategorized

Here’s what I’ve learned about being tested by ‘those’ people

When they are cowardly, be brave. When they suck your energy, breathe out their negativity. When they are unfair, be defiant. When they use you, use your boundaries. When they hurt you, love yourself more (and huddle with your tribe). … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

A post-script to International Women’s Day

My Type A senior daughter is having a hard time with my recovery as a Former Perfectionist.  I pretend I don’t hear the tuts as her perfectly made up, whipped-into-shape-eyebrows scan the slightly grubby windows, the shaggy pile floor (not … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Today is the most important day of my life

I’m back! I feel I should be slinking back to this keyboard, pretending to yawn and stretch and say through bleary eyes “Oh what a lovely sleep that was… what time is it?” January 2019?!  My last post was nearly … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | 3 Comments

International Women’s Day…

I’m not ashamed to admit I’ve taken a few drugs in my time. (The good thing about getting to this young age is I’m not afraid to admit to anything anymore as my Give a Fuck battery is running as … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | 1 Comment

Times are a changin’ but they always were and always will.

  As another year draws to a close, I will not be making any resolutions. I ‘should’ give up Gin, Facebook and Dorritos but my resolution last year was to give up the word ‘should’ so I’m sticking to that. … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

When girls should be girls.

Warning: this post contains expletives, feminism, anger and lipstick. I originally began to write this blogpost a week ago as a sashay through sexism to explore how my girls can be the people they want to be, regardless of their … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

ten good things about middle age

As I sip a G&T after a lazy sort of busy Sunday, I’m feeling rather contented. I haven’t had enough of the G to feel the T yet, so I’m assuming my hormones are having a lazy day too and … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | 3 Comments