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About Grin & Tonic by Alana Kirk

Bouncing into middle age armed with courage, ambition and a pair of tweezers (chin hairs for anyone over the age of 45 reading this) I am a writer with a mission: to redefine this midway point in my life when the last thing I want to do is hang up my high heels and become invisible. This is the end of the beginning, not the beginning of the end. A single mum to 3 fabulous girls, an author, and a fundraising consultant, both ends of my candle are on fire. As I enter this new stage of my life, I want to explore what it means for 'mid-aged' women today, who were promised they could have it all, ended up doing it all, and just do not identify with the traditional image of middle age.

I’m coming out of the closet

I’m coming out of the closet.  For those who know me well, I came out of the closet a while ago, painted it, decoupaged it and upholstered the matching chair beside it. I’m outing myself as a lover of ‘doing … Continue reading

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Sisterly Celebration

It’s been one of those weeks in our house. If we were a TV station, we would be called Drama Central, a series of shocking shows were reality and madness are entwined in a farcical folly of frantic antics, or … Continue reading

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All change

The heat from the summer sun is diminishing in strength. It’s a little chillier, a little earlier in the day.  I apply sun cream in the morning, and light the fire in the evening. Autumn is tapping it’s feet in … Continue reading

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Moments of Memory

Memories are moments remembered.  Often I say my brain is like a sieve because it loses everything (including my children’s names at times, as like my mum I call them all three, or sometimes the pets names until I find … Continue reading

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Perfection is for Perfectionists

I used to pride myself on perfection.  (In my head at least.)  I liked to think of myself as a perfectionist. My mum would disagree. She actually was a perfectionist, and could sew and knit to professional standard while my … Continue reading

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Donegal Daydreams

We’re back. Me and the girls. Sucking in that endless sky and the sea-brazen air that blows around our heads, rustling our hair and filtering through our brains so that only the moment remains.   It blows away all the … Continue reading

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The Power is going to my head

Lovely as my dog and kitten are,  they can be a bit naughty at times (my super cool cat however is never naughty, only a haughty purring panther perfection). I love it when a new idea changes my life.  I’ve a … Continue reading

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Finding my wings…

Last night I had to admit I’m a fairy.  My daughter looked at me dubiously. A sustained campaign of Gin and chocolate do not a waif-like woman make. But I fluttered my invisible wings and confessed, a fairy I have … Continue reading

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Digital Dynamics

My nine year old daughter still doesn’t quite believe me about the first time I got a mobile phone. “How old were you?” she asked hoping my age would be similar to hers so she could get one. “32.” She … Continue reading

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From the mouths of babes…

Sometimes my children know better than me. After 3 hours of solid singing in the garden, Ruby flopped on the bed and proclaimed: “I’m out of battery. Plug me in to recharge!” And she’s right.  Sometimes we just need to … Continue reading

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